Jane and Megan
Megan is autistic and has learning disabilities. She is very cautious when visiting new places with mum Jane who does the trip planning on her behalf. We spoke to Jane and asked her what’s important to them both when deciding where to visit and when venturing out.
Jane explained that Megan can be quite anxious when visiting somewhere new. This requires Jane to do a lot of planning beforehand.
Having a website that offers accessibility information, such as the availability of a Changing Places Toilet, is crucial for Jane.
“I’ll take a good look at a venue’s website to see if they have anything which will help us, so it’s great if the accessibility information is easy to find. If I can’t find it in a couple of clicks, I give up and look somewhere else.”
Making sure to have lots of images that show exactly what they can expect also helps reduce Megan’s anxiety.
“It’s not really the swish marketing images she needs to see, it’s the ‘ordinary’ things like the car park, the entrance, the uniforms which staff wear, the café and the toilets etc.”
Key accessibility information Jane looks for:
- fast-track queuing policy
- Changing Places Toilet
- designated quiet space
- sensory backpack available (contain ear defenders, fidget toys, copy of sensory story)
“There are a lot of things that Megan and I are not able to do together and I tell myself that doesn’t matter but, when I think about it, it actually does matter. In reality, tourism businesses and the lovely people who work in them have created the backdrop for some of our most precious memories.”
The importance of staff
“Having friendly, helpful staff who have some understanding of autism is key for us. It’s not only the autistic person who needs support and understanding, but also whoever is supporting’
Just a friendly face and someone saying ‘how can I help’ makes a world of difference. We might have had a really early start or had little sleep and perhaps arrive a little frazzled, so some calm and positive support and the offer of help is incredibly welcome. There are times, such as in the middle of a ‘meltdown’ when I might not know how someone can help, but I’ll be really glad that they asked!”
